4 Reasons To Hire A Companion
I was having lunch with a friend yesterday and he shared that he had thought about hiring an escort from time to time, but never followed through. We quickly became engaged in conversation, and I found myself sharing the main reasons why I’d recommend someone trust their instinct and book a session.
If you’re new to hiring a companion, it’s common to feel unsure, nervous, or scared. Maybe you’ve visited several websites and even sent a few inquiries, but never followed all the way through with booking. It’s totally normal to have doubts, anxieties, or insecurities come up in this process. And I’m here to tell you that it’s entirely safe, healthy, and okay to hire your first companion.
Here are four good reasons to do it today:
To get your intimacy needs met (physical, emotional, & spiritual)
The sad truth is that we live in an intimacy-starved world. You likely spend your days working on the computer and are not getting adequate physical touch or emotional intimacy. This is exactly what companions are offering as a service, and I always find it problematic that the very thing most people in this world are starving for, is conveniently sold yet criminalized, shamed, and ostracized. Imagine just for a moment that you could put all of your fear and judgment about sex work aside. If you did, would hiring a companion seem like a solid solution to meeting your intimacy needs?
To explore your sexuality in a safe space
Sex workers are sex educators. I know this to be true, and I envision a world where they’ll be seen that way. Maybe there’s something specific you’ve always wanted to try in the bedroom, but you’ve never found a partner who was open to it. Or maybe you want to be led by a dominant woman who will expose you to fun new things you’ve never considered. Either way, if you’re working with an experienced, mature, and intelligent companion, she will create a safe, sex-positive, nonjudgmental space for you to explore your desires. I can’t think of anything more valuable than a relationship that gives us this space to experiment, learn, and grow.
To meet someone new and develop an honest, healthy, transactional relationship with them
One of the biggest objections I hear from potential clients is that they’re uncomfortable with the “transactional nature” of companionship, or that they’re seeking something that won’t feel transactional. You should always honor yourself and abstain from anything that truly doesn’t feel right for you. However, I challenge the notion that “transactional” equals “bad”. I cherish my transactional relationships. They are honest, direct, and clean. Everyone knows what to expect, everyone gets what they want, and everyone gets taken care of. I say transactional is beautiful.It’s just so convenient!
I’ll close by stating the somewhat obvious. Hiring a companion is light years more convenient than the insanity of attempting to get a date the typical way. Even if you’re an attractive and fit man, you can sometimes spend weeks or months swiping for matches before someone hot finally messages you back. Then when she does, they only meet you in person a small percentage of the time. Then it’s a platonic first date, and you’re lucky if you ever see her again let alone get to see her in the bedroom. Companionship is convenient. Find someone you find incredibly hot, send her a friendly message, send the deposit, and she’s in. It’s almost too good to be true. But it is true.
Feeling curious to give it a go? I’m just a quick message away. Reach out today to set up our initial video date.